When i have a person who date an adult relationships have flown to my 18 year old enough to 30, i had a guy exclusively. He learned the hard way and now that he has someone that fits perfectly, he shows me every day! The important thing is how you two feel about one another and the good times you share. Ever since I was 15, Ive had a crush on this guy who was 8 years older than me we go to church together and our families know each other well. Develop an interest in whatever it is that he likes. Have you dated someone significantly younger or older than you? And either way shouldn't faze you one bit. Its hard to deal with because you will grow up. However, if she feels that you are judging or criticizing her for her choice of men, she is unlikely to tell you anything about her private life.
At that precise moment, I gave up. If not, you should handle the matter in a discreet manner to salvage your daughter from possible trouble. The whole situation has really got me down now and i am starting to suffer from Deppression. If given a choice, would you like to have an affair with an older man? Anonymous I have the same age gap with my mate and he is healthy and a young 63 with teenagers because he didn't have children until he was 43. He has three sons from a previus marriage whom he adores and he would like more. Anonymous Glad i found this article and comments. As long as your both unattached, consenting adults, I don't see any reason why you can't get to know each better and see where it goes.
His charm made me fell for him and I use to wonder why he had to be this old. Thank you so much for sharing this! I am also Indian 24 dating someone 30 years older than me for almost 2 years and cannot decide if I should tell my mom or not. Socially You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle. The fact that you are rooting for your daughter to be heartbroken is disgusting. He was basically selling himself. Drinks, dinner, and gifts all on his dime. If you feel really left out of the group, you might not be ready for this kind of a relationship.
There is also a part in me that want to tell him. I know that I am setting myself up for heartbreak in a few years. I'm certainly waiting until after I turn 18 though. Here are some tips to make your marriage work:. There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key.
It's too expensive to see each other right now so we're just being patient until finances permit a much anticipated rendezvous. I am skeptical about our age gap, but reading all of these stories are very reassuring to me. There are many pitfalls to watch out for when dating an older man. We never discuss age, it is not an issues and what others think Expressed or not is meaningless to both of us. . But I have never in my life been so loved or so happy.
He currently has the job that I'm going to school for 8 more years to get plus another 6 years of training after that! I'm still unwilling to take him on trips to see my parents because I'm afraid of them judging him or me. Plus, if I may be so bold, sex with older men is so, so, so different and better, in my opinion. I was asking myself what does she want from me. They both told me if they could go back, they wouldn't do it again. Ask polly: shortly after we let our 16-year-old girl, are all, before your daughter who's dating someone who was 28. I now mingle and I amin my own world, the one I live in with he gifts I have and loving my family and mylself. It makes me so happy to see this post and all of these comments that I am crying.
Anonymous I have a boyfriend that is 19 years older than me. How to Get My Daughter to Stop Dating Older Men How Much Older Are We Talking? Clear Consequences If he has not done so already, your boyfriend needs to step in and let his daughter know her rude behavior is not acceptable. I am however enjoying each encounter, each time we meet to go out, each time we dance together we belong to the same dance club … Funny thing is that no one of our mutual friends know about it…. And when bad things happened, it will be too late. Is he happily married with a wife and children and just enjoys having a bit of fun with a young lady who is showing him attention? If your daughter only dates men who are significantly older than her, ask yourself why this may be the case. Even if intercourse has not occurred, you may have concerns that an older man is trying to take advantage of your teenage daughter. Now that I have been single for awhile I asked if he wanted to meet up again.
I've dated lots of men in their late 20s and 30s with no luck. Anonymous I was hit on by my ex girlfriend and I was a lot more aware of the social ramifications than she, so I never initiated anything…. I asked him if he needed help and we instantly connected… it was brutal, ferocious but as weird as it might sound, my gut feeling was screaming to run away, to stay far from him. There are no guarantees in life! Be honest with her about your own experiences and aim to have a two-way conversation, instead of lecturing her, advises the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy. If i'm not too much more attractive. Anonymous Eleanor, here's the thing. Share your thoughts in the comments section below.