Quote: Originally posted by jalexy i am 21 and i hate to break the news to you, but of all the guys around my age that i have met, i have never met a single one that would date a 40 year old woman seriously. That is the only place he has taken me like we have never gone out except on his Bday I took him to the improve. All the men I have met around my age are crazy. The disparity is not age it is likes , character and personality. There were about six months I did work and take classes, and it was hard. Our relationship may or may not make it because of it. The other reasons are mainly psychological.
And we talked about everything under the sun. Also, my mom used to let us play in the mud and turn the house upside down every day, but she snaps at my little sis when she tries to do the same. Could someone who happens to date a guy in the question! I don't know if this is the same for men or not. Age is just perception, people are the same. Free join one of expected a relationship wih a difference. I like him because he does not want anything from me except what I want to give him. You say you are long distance, how well do you really know him after 6 months? There are challenges and rewards with both.
However, he was always in terrific health and had no problem working 60+ hrs a week to support the family and helping to raise us. In this regard it's not that the women 35+ don't appeal to them emotionally or whatnot, but it's in essence a way to cling to their youth. Leave it to the bitter gay guy who will never even have kids to actually be one of the few people to realize what a gift kids are, and to see that obvious — that putting your needs ahead of yours kids usually fucks them up. He knows how to effectively communicate and get his thoughts and ideas through. Let him know that children are a must for you and you need to know where he stands. .
Traditional child bearing kind of thing without biological link to him. Then you have to go through the emotional hell of leaving a man you love in every way so that you can fulfill your dream of becoming a mother. Get it clean or at least organized. I am a 28-year-old woman who is dating a 50-year-old man. I see in this as win-win-win for all parties. As far as dating a 50-year old…all I have to say is David Duchovny is 50 and have you seen his body? He respects me and feels lucky to be with me, and I feel the same way.
My daughter is very clear in liking being the only child and not wanting that to change. Maturity level is high for older men. They're old dating an 18-year-old daughter 50 and i have been in new jersey who is it anyway. What younger girls weren't grossed out by older guys? I have been like so caught up in this that I check his many e-mail accounts daily his pockets every night pick apart every word he says and analize them, I feel like I am losing my mind. I never felt compelled to have kids. Enough to get completely wasted so that the following days will be completely forgotten, including the women he picked up the first night.
Neither had any complications with their pregnancies nor were there any health problems for me or my cousin. And of course, men can have children for a looooooooooong time past the age when women stop being fertile. I also had a great-grandma that I worked for a lot during the summer digging potatoes, feeding calves, slug removal, weeding strawberries, fixing lunch, etc. When I ended it we both were in tears. I also think he is using you for security and stability while he plays elsewhere.
I think a successful relationship has shared values and a shared vision for the future. It, obviously, helps that he cares about me ; but it's nice to know he can safely tell me how to handle things from his previous experiences. January 9, think that are comfortable with a 30 years older fellow or girls in their late late 20s. But i don't want to be a cougar. But of course, I dominate to make many major decision, since he matures slower than me, so that he is depend on me.
He's pretty much in it for the sex even though his words may say otherwise. And the time to find someone, settle on her being the woman, conceiving, could easily push him into the 55 age range for a newborn child. He was with me every single day since the very first day we met. My husband and I waited to start trying until we both had more established careers. What happened is over time we both softened our positions,realized who we were as a couple, became more maleable, etc. And then enough left over to continue to not work? So why bother making even more of a mess? A 31-year-old is much harder to impress, but a 21-year-old will balk if you come on too strong. Not enough alcohol to vomit and have a terrible hang-over.
I'd say that's more of a consideration than age itself. I also believe that this younger generations is having a certain sexual freedom instilled into them more so than the 30-50 year old range. The thing is, he can steer me in the right direction. Just when a man's cannot find anything at all: oh look, younger and eager women! On the other hand, my 21 year old friend dated a 37 year old with kids, and they did nothing but fight until he eventually dumped her. I don't need to go on it's common sense that men are naturally attracted for a myriad of reasons not all good just saying.
If you feel it, don't hold back. That has nothing to do with his age though. For example, a 20-year difference between a 20-year old and a 40-year old is very noticeable. I meant that the most important person should be your spouse, not the kids. Im dating a 21-year-old girl or older than.